Couch-Surfing

From dirty European hostels, a stream of Motel Sixes and makeshift campsites to the more luxurious establishments such as a Sheraton or an Embassy Suites- I’ve had my fair share of lodging experiences in my travels.

Nothing, however, can quite top the mixture of adventure, intrigue and awkwardness that comes with couch-surfing.

Couch surfing is simply enjoying the hospitality of individuals who live across the globe that open up their homes for international travelers for an arranged period of time, typically from one to three nights. Websites such as www.couchsurfing.org provides the forum where prospective travelers and hosts can “meet” online and communicate with each other.

There is also no expectation of payment as individuals who host do so in order to meet new people and accompany travelers for fresh experiences- although it would not be inappropriate to buy them a round of beer or bring a bottle of wine.

Although hesitant at the concept at first, my brother and I had found ourselves in the situation where couch surfing became a more preferable lodging option than a bench at a Belgium train station mid-winter (side note- plan ahead when traveling around New Years, even hostels become booked).

When explaining the concept of couch-surfing, the immediate reaction is always an inquiry into the safety aspect of meeting strangers online for the purpose of spending a night or two at their home. Both standing over 6ft tall, fully confident in our capacity to protect ourselves and free of the concerns of women sporting the looks of Natalie Portman or Mila Kunis- my brother and I very rarely hesitate for safety’s sake.

However, for those who do not share the same indifference to such concerns, those who utilize sites such as couchsurfing.org create profiles, similar to a facebook or myspace page, but do so to gain and maintain a positive online reputation while gaining references and vouches from other users to add to your credibility. The site also obviously advises to use strong discretion and has a constantly updated list of safety tips for travelers.

The overall experience of couch-surfing was pleasant enough. After contacting a gentleman in Brussels through the site we arranged to meet at a public place before heading to his studio. After an initial awkward greeting of meeting a stranger we were quick to commence the night’s outings.

The hospitality was not lacking. He offered his own food for dinner and took us to the local hot spots for strong Belgium brew.

The only true oddity was that his apartment was devoid of any décor and there was a strange absence of any personal items (such as photographs) at his home which gave the impression that he was lonely and utilized the site for company.

Grateful for a free place to spend the night, especially during the holiday season- this was of no real concern. True to its name, we literally slept on couches although it is rumored there are hosts who have extra beds for guests.

For those who are adventurous in foreign places with a willingness to meet new people and don't mind sleeping on a couch, couch-surfing should be viable option when making your travel arrangements.